10.3 The Physics of Forgiveness
“If you hate someone, you are actually hating a part of your own wave function. This hatred geometrically manifests as a continuous, high-energy-consuming tension that tears your internal connectivity. Forgiveness is not moral compromise; forgiveness is physical ‘depolarization.’ It is making those two fighting hands clasp again, reconnecting the broken entanglement network. Only forgiveness can terminate the vicious oscillation of causality.”
In the previous section, we established the ontological fact of “the only sufferer”: in a single-player game, all harm is self-harm. This makes us understand the absurdity of evil. But understanding does not equal liberation. When trauma has occurred, when painful memories wedge into our structure like nails, how do we remove them?
Conventional responses are revenge (counterattack) or repression (isolation).
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Revenge: Creates new entropy increase, trying to offset old entropy increase. But this only exponentially increases the system’s total chaos.
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Repression: Establishes internal firewalls, isolating painful areas. But this reduces the system’s effective degrees of freedom, causing vitality to atrophy.
Vector Cosmology proposes a third solution: Forgiveness.
In this chapter, forgiveness is no longer a weak emotion but a high-precision geometric repair engineering.
1. Termination of Left-Right Hand Fighting: Eliminating Internal Friction
Imagine your left hand accidentally injures your right hand.
If the right hand doesn’t “forgive,” its reaction is to hit back.
Then the left hand hits the right hand again.
This is a “Vicious Cycle”. Physically, this is a Positive Feedback Loop that causes rapid energy dissipation in the system until collapse.
As the only player (brain/noumenon), you must intervene.
The intervention command is “forgiveness”.
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Definition of forgiveness: The system recognizes that the attack source (left hand) and the attacked (right hand) belong to the same topological whole.
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Operation: Stop attack command output, initiate repair resource allocation.
At the sociological level, when you forgive someone who harmed you, you are actually performing “system identification”.
You not only see their appearance as “perpetrator” but also see their essence as “lost self-avatar”.
You stop sending “destructive interference waves” (hate) in that direction and instead send “constructive interference waves” (love/understanding).
This instantly eliminates internal friction in the system. Energy no longer goes to internal consumption but flows back to growth.
2. Macroscopic Application of Quantum Erasure: Reconstructing Path Information
In Volume I, we discussed the quantum erasure experiment: as long as “path information” is erased, interference fringes (coherence) revive.
What is trauma?
Trauma is a piece of over-marked path information.
“He betrayed me in 2025.” — This information is like a scar, locking your wave function, collapsing you onto the “victim” state.
Forgiveness is “quantum erasure.”
You don’t need to erase facts ( still happened), but you can erase its “opposition polarity” in the causal chain.
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Operation: You reinterpret that memory.
“That wasn’t betrayal; that was misalignment of two independent wills on evolutionary paths.”
“That wasn’t malice; that was inevitable collapse due to his incomplete structure.”
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Result: Through this Cognitive Reframing, you erase the binary opposition marker of “me vs. him.”
When opposition information is erased, the wave function “Re-coheres”.
You bounce back from the “victim state” to the “complete state.” That energy that once caused you pain now becomes part of your life experience, providing you with depth and thickness.
3. Geometric Healing: Topological Short-Circuit
From the perspective of tensor networks, forgiveness is a “topological short-circuit”.
Hate is Open Circuit.
When you hate someone, you build a firewall between you and them. Information cannot flow; entanglement is cut. This creates a void in the cosmic network.
Forgiveness is Reconnection.
You actively extend tendrils of consciousness across that void, reconnecting with that “broken node” (them).
Although they may still be flawed, through connection, you include them in your “Greater Self”.
Your becomes larger.
Forgiveness is not for them; it’s to make yourself complete.
A person who cannot forgive is a “fragmented” person. Their soul is full of broken wounds.
A person who can forgive is a “holographic” person. Their soul is connected, smooth, leakless.
Conclusion: The Privilege of the Strong
So, don’t mistake forgiveness for weakness.
Forgiveness is the privilege of the strong.
Only those with huge budgets (mental power), only those who see through “mirror theory,” have the ability to perform this high-difficulty geometric repair surgery.
The weak can only revenge (conform to inertia ).
The strong can forgive (conform to spiral ).
Forgiveness is the moment you personally untie that dead knot on the causal closed loop.
Once that knot is untied, you are free.
You are no longer locked by the past; you can continue ascending toward the point.
At this point, we have solved the ultimate problem of “evil” and “suffering.”
Evil is the cost of exploration; suffering is the noumenon’s experience; forgiveness is the path of return.
Now, all obstacles are cleared. We (the only player) can finally walk to the center of the stage to complete that action spanning 13.8 billion years, end-to-end.
This leads to the final chapter of the book: Handshake.
That is not a handshake between two people; that is you extending your hand and grasping your own hand.